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How can I resolve disagreements about specific issues to do with our children?
If you and your ex are having difficulty reaching an agreement about a specific matter affecting your child, you can try to reach a resolution in various ways. For example, mediation (see my previous blog for more information), joint counselling, or speaking to a lawyer can help. If things reach a stalemate, the family court can intervene by making a Specific Issue Order (SIO) under Section 8 of the Children Act 1989. Commons reasons to apply for an SIO include: Education: D
pollybarklem
5 days ago3 min read


What if my ex and I cannot reach an agreement about our children?
If you and your ex agree about where your children will live, how often and when they will spend time with their non-resident parent, you do not have to complete any official paperwork.
However, many separated couples find it helpful to write down what has been agreed in a Parenting Plan, so that the agreement they have come to is recorded clearly.

Polly Jackman
Oct 273 min read


Resources for people who have experienced or are experiencing domestic abuse
Resources for people who have experienced or are experiencing domestic abuse.

Polly Jackman
Oct 82 min read


What is mediation?
What is mediation? Mediation is a confidential, voluntary, and flexible process that helps people resolve disagreements with the help of a neutral third party. The third party, called a mediator, is impartial and does not take sides. The mediator's role is to help the parties involved find a solution they can all agree to.

Polly Jackman
Sep 222 min read


How does the divorce process work?
The divorce process usually requires both you and your ex to take several actions. In brief, this involves submitting the divorce application, waiting for the 20-week 'cooling-off' period which starts once the divorce is issued, then applying for the Conditional Order. Six weeks and one day later you can apply for the Final Order.

Polly Jackman
Aug 53 min read


Co-parenting after a separation or divorce
Co-parenting after a divorce or separation involves working together to raise your children while prioritising their needs and well-being.

Polly Jackman
Jul 171 min read


Beginning a divorce
If you have decided that your marriage has come to an end, and you are ready to move onto getting a divorce, you can begin this process yourself, or arrange for a solicitor to handle it for you.

Polly Jackman
Jun 22 min read
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